Hello once again! Thanks for taking the time
to peer into the
corners of the complex
minds of your friends
and neighbors with
me. I have interviewed two wonderful friends
of ours and probably
yours as well. They
are strong members of
our community and
are
valued loyal readers
of the Crystal Angel.
AylinLady and Dr
Caius have
shared with us their
opinions and their inner
thoughts and I thank
them
for taking time from
their busy schedules
to be here with us
today.
HUGZ to them both!!
Love YA!
.::Mela::.. says:
So tell us a little
about your moove life..how
long have you been
here..
how did you like
it when you first got here?
::Aylinlady:: says:
I think its been
a little more then 1 year.
The first thing I
liked about moove is that
it's difrent from
other chats, and it allows
you to be creative
too.
You can be as you
feel, and become that person
you want to be.
Not that I act difrent
then I am in real
,but i know others
do
play and feel like
they are as they look
like in moove actors.
So this is kind of
fantasy world to some.
..::Månd˙::.. says:
what is your favorite
noobie memory? ::Aylinlady:: says:
favorite ? Well,
when I was new, I remember
it was all kind of
scary. Everything was
so new and new things
sometime make you feel
unsafe and afraid
or insecure.
That is what I also
feel when I meet newbees.
But most fvaorite
or.. I will say good
things is those friends
I find in time. You
get closer and closer
and you know them better
as time passes. ..::Aylinlady::.. says:
=) Aylinlady says:
was that the answer? ..::Mela::.. says:
heh that is entirely
up to you ;P ..::Mela::.. says:
what do you look
for most in love? Aylinlady says:
in love ::Aylinlady:: says:
You dont look; I
think love look for you.
And then those things
u share together: Honesty
trust, and the feeling
that the person cares
for you. And you
can feel it in the way he
is behaving, you
know what i mean? No one
can pretend to love
for a long time.
If he doesnt really
love, and you cant see
that then you are
either blind in love or
stupid.
Maybe that's why
love relationships in Moove
end so fast. Only
a few stay for a long time.
..::Mela::.. says:
Yes i think that
is probably the main reason
::Aylinlady:: says:
yes ..::Månd˙::.. says:
Love is something
that should never be pretended.
Not even for a game
::Aylinlady:: says:.
No one can, but sometimes
we need some piece
of love
not the whole thing.
So we think its ok to
feel just a bit of
love, then after
some time, after
you get what you need you
lose interest and
look for another piece
of
it.
..::Månd˙::.. says:
ahh so it cannot
really be love..it is cathexis.
((caˇthexˇes (-thksz)
Concentration of
emotional energy on an object
or idea.)
It's pink fluffy
cloud syndrome.
..::Månd˙::.. says:
=)
::Aylinlady:: says:
So,no its not. Just
U get what u need when
u need it.
As I see it, lots
of ppl do like that in
moove, otherwise
how can you explain
that he or she is
sooo much in love now,
then 1 month later,
they feel the same way
for
another person.
..::Månd˙::.. says:
Yes it is a spreading
epidemic...careless
heartbreak
::Aylinlady:: says:
ahh yes..some of
my friends comes to us heartbroken
time after time..it
seams like
it feels real everytime.
Pain is real. Feelings
are real, not the
actor. ..::Månd˙::.. says:
if you are reading
this and you do it, it
HURTS!!
..::Mela::.. says:
what is your idea
of a perfect first date?
::Aylinlady:: says:
in moove? I dont
know realy lol!
..::Mela::.. says:
If anything were
possible, what would be
perfection? ::Aylinlady:: says:
That's hard to say.
But when u meet some
one, even he is behind
the screen
You feel sometimes,
or want to feel or u
are ready or in need
to feel something.
Then it feels so
different. Regardless of
the room u are in,
its the most beautiful
place in moove
..or in somekind
of dungoen. ..::Månd˙::.. says:
hahaha
so not about place
::Aylinlady:: says:
So not about place,
or outfit really. The
perfect date is when
you meet some one perfect
for you.
..::Mela::.. says:
If you caught your
partner being unfaithful,
what would you do? ::Aylinlady:: says:
Well then I will
poof out of his life.. ..::Mela::.. says:
That's understandable. ::Aylinlady:: says:
Some one told me
in moove yesterday, she
has chased someone
all the time, and he had
left her for another
women
..::Månd˙::.. says:
yikes ::Aylinlady:: says:
and she still hoped
he will turn back to
her again.
That was something
I cant understand.
..::Månd˙::.. says:
me either.. ..::Månd˙::.. says:
There is one thing
one thing i firmly believe,
if you have to force
love..its never going
to truly be love.
It should come easily.
If I dont belive
Im valuble as person, then
he will not care
if he hurts me or not.
He will step on me
again and again. If I
let him do it once,
then he will do it
again and again. It's
like in real life,
if you forgive your boyfriend
or husband,
then he will do it
again.And u will keep
forgiving, and lose
your self-respect. ..::Månd˙::.. says:
yes, you are absolutely
right.
..::Mela::.. says:
Once you have become
certain way as an adult.I
dont know if someone
can really change their
basic principles
..if they are capable they
are capable ::Aylinlady:: says:
That's so true.. ..::Månd˙::.. says:
If they once thought
it was ok to hit or
cheat..they will
again. ::Aylinlady:: says:
But sometime we wish
something, and think
that if we wish long
and work for it, then
it will be true,
until we learn or
wake up from our dream. ..::Mela::.. says:
*says a little prayer
for the people who
cling to those thoughts* ::Aylinlady:: says:
and i say "
amen" ..::Mela::.. says:
Do you think every
lie is wrong? Even if
it is a lie that
would hide something hurtful
from someone and
maybe keep them from pain? Aylinlady says:
Maybe not, some lies
can be good. If you
are protecting someone
from the truth.
Nothing in life is
really just right or wrong
is it? ..::Månd˙::.. says:
=) That is based
on your beliefs i think..are
you asking me?
::Aylinlady:: says:
that is what I see
in life. ..::Mela::.. says:
that is what we are
here to learn *big smiles*
::Aylinlady:: says:
We all want to do
right thing, then sometime
we do oposite, so
we learn from our falured
if we are lucky
and grow to be a
better person. This is the
basic human thing. ..::Månd˙::.. says:
If there was one
thing you could change about
Moove that would
benefit us all what would
it be? Aylinlady says:
I cant change people
in it, lol, no one can.
But in art or technical
things that can be
changed, i think
i would like a better
moving actor, with
better facial movements.
I think that is
possible.
But that is not something
i can change ,
but I can think like
that. .::Mela::.. says:
no but it was an
"if" thing, so
that is a perfectly
good answer. ::Aylinlady:: says:
Good
..::Mela::..So we
are done..thank you
so
much for your time
and your wonderful
insight
::Aylinlady:: says:
yw ..::Mela::.. says:
It was great taliking
with you!
Now lets get the male perception. Doc is
Aylin's sweet fiance, and has shared with
us as well.
Mela: now..i always like to start with a
kind of introduction of you
john caius: now is
this about the real me
?? Mela: can you tell us a little about yourself..like
where you grew up..what your favorite hobbies
are.. Mela: yes, the real you. Mela: lol
Dr caius: Hmm.. OK
.. I grew up in Norwich
Norfolk, England.
My hobbies are reading,
acting, and singing.
Later on I began
fencing and playing the
guitar. Ispent 20
yrs as a professional actor/singer.
Then took I up teaching
because of family. Mela: what was your childhood like...city
life...country life...suburban? Dr caius: a mix .. edge of the city but mostly
country style Mela: hmm do tell =)
Dr caius:We had fields
just next to the
house
and relations in
towns in the country.
john caius: tell
what?
Mela: hehe enquiring
minds wanna know
*grin*
if you were to give
us the insider look
into
your childhood,
what would your favorite
memory be? Dr caius: ah.. holidays staying with my grandparents..
I went there often. I remember also going
camping as a family holiday. I remember my
father and I putting up a large tent .. just
the two of us ,when I was
about 9. I remember
it was dark when we finished
and went and had
fish and chips. Mela: hehe now Mela: my next probing question Mela: hahahaa Mela: what do you look for most in a love
relationship? Dr caius: hmm. trust. being good company
for each other Mela: What is your idea of a perfect first
date? Dr caius: Do you mean the event or the the
lady? Mela: either..both Mela: lol Dr caius: I don't know that I have one, an
idea of that I mean. Mela: i just mean if you were to close your
eyes and imagine the perfect date..no limits..
no restrictions,
what would it be? Dr caius: a chance encounter I think, somewhere
relaxed where you start talking and realize
you want to meet again.
Like at a party,
you sit by the fire relaxed
and just chat, then
maybe exchange numbers.
I guess it would
be based on mutual interest
in things.. either
theatre or whatever.. john caius: OK?? Mela: OK
Mela: rofl
Mela: if you caught
your partner with
another
man or woman what
would you do?
Dr caius: in here or real? probably the same
thing though... I would walk out to start
with, and stay out maybe.. Mela: DO you think that every lie is wrong?
Even if it may spare someone's feelings?
If it hides something that may hurt
someone, is a lie
ok? Dr caius: well 'white lies' are usually called
tact if it is not too serious..
Mela: so your answer
is no..you believe
that
a lie is ok if it
has good intentions
behind
it?
Dr caius: some lies are allowable depends
on circumstances I guess.
You don't tell a
lady that you think she
looks awful, even
If you think so when she
asks. Mela: hahaha Mela: you are funny Mela: ok so my last and most greuling question
..
If there was on change
that you could make
our Moove community
to better it for us all
what would it be?
Dr caius: Hmm.. being
able to share a house
more would be good Mela: so being able to fully live with your
spouse? Dr caius: And I guess finding a sure way
to stop multiple nicknames?
Dr caius: yes to
your last question
Mela: *nods* Mela: great Doc! thanks so much for your
time. =)
Thank you Doc and Aylin for letting me poke
at your grey matter. What interesting comparisons
we made having a couple to interview. Next
issue I will be picking random members...maybe
some people I dont know. So if you see me
knocking on your nickpage...get ready! Straighten
your living room and get ready to be a star!
Hugsss and a kiss
to all of you loyal
readers!
See you next time.
Who knows, my next
interview
could be YOU.
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