Hello once again! Thanks for taking the time
to peer into the
corners of the complex minds of your friends
and neighbors with me. I have interviewed two wonderful friends
of ours and probably
yours as well. They are strong members of
our community and are
valued loyal readers of the Crystal Angel.
AylinLady and Dr Caius have
shared with us their opinions and their inner
thoughts and I thank them
for taking time from their busy schedules
to be here with us today.
HUGZ to them both!! Love YA!
.::Mela::.. says:
So tell us a little about your moove life..how
long have you been here..
how did you like it when you first got here?
::Aylinlady:: says:
I think its been a little more then 1 year.
The first thing I liked about moove is that
it's different from other chats, and it allows
you to be creative too.
You can be as you feel, and become that person
you want to be.
Not that I act different then I am in real
,but i know others do
play and feel like they are as they look
like in moove actors.
So this is kind of fantasy world to some.
..::Mela::.. says:
what is your favorite noobie memory? ::Aylinlady:: says:
favorite ? Well, when I was new, I remember
it was all kind of scary. Everything was
so new and new things sometime make you feel
unsafe and afraid or insecure.
That is what I also feel when I meet newbees.
But most fvaorite or.. I will say good
things is those friends I find in time. You
get closer and closer and you know them better
as time passes. ..::Aylinlady::.. says:
=) Aylinlady says:
was that the answer? ..::Mela::.. says:
heh that is entirely up to you ;P ..::Mela::.. says:
what do you look for most in love? Aylinlady says:
in love ::Aylinlady:: says:
You dont look; I think love look for you.
And then those things u share together: Honesty
trust, and the feeling that the person cares
for you. And you can feel it in the way he
is behaving, you know what i mean? No one
can pretend to love for a long time.
If he doesnt really love, and you cant see
that then you are either blind in love or
stupid.
Maybe that's why love relationships in Moove
end so fast. Only a few stay for a long time. ..::Mela::.. says:
Yes i think that is probably the main reason
::Aylinlady:: says:
yes ::Mela: says:
Love is something that should never be pretended.
Not even for a game ::Aylinlady:: says:.
No one can, but sometimes we need some piece
of love
not the whole thing. So we think its ok to
feel just a bit of love, then after
some time, after you get what you need you
lose interest and look for another piece
of
it. ::Mela: says:
ahh so it cannot really be love..it is cathexis.
((ca·thex·es (-thksz)
Concentration of emotional energy on an object
or idea.)
It's pink fluffy cloud syndrome. ::Mela: says:
=) ::Aylinlady:: says:
So,no its not. Just U get what u need when
u need it.
As I see it, lots of ppl do like that in
moove, otherwise how can you explain
that he or she is sooo much in love now,
then 1 month later, they feel the same way
for
another person. ::Mela:. says:
Yes it is a spreading epidemic...careless
heartbreak ::Aylinlady:: says:
ahh yes..some of my friends comes to us heartbroken
time after time..it seams like
it feels real everytime. Pain is real. Feelings
are real, not the actor. ::Mela: says:
if you are reading this and you do it, it
HURTS!! ..::Mela::.. says:
what is your idea of a perfect first date? ::Aylinlady:: says:
in moove? I dont know realy lol! ..::Mela::.. says:
If anything were possible, what would be
perfection? ::Aylinlady:: says:
That's hard to say. But when u meet some
one, even he is behind the screen
You feel sometimes, or want to feel or u
are ready or in need to feel something.
Then it feels so different. Regardless of
the room u are in, its the most beautiful
place in moove
..or in somekind of dungoen. ::Mela: says:
hahaha
so not about place ::Aylinlady:: says:
So not about place, or outfit really. The
perfect date is when you meet some one perfect
for you. ..::Mela::.. says:
If you caught your partner being unfaithful,
what would you do? ::Aylinlady:: says:
Well then I will poof out of his life.. ..::Mela::.. says:
That's understandable. ::Aylinlady:: says:
Some one told me in moove yesterday, she
has chased someone all the time, and he had
left her for another women
.::Mela:. says:
yikes ::Aylinlady:: says:
and she still hoped he will turn back to
her again.
That was something I cant understand. ::Mela: says:
me either.. .::Mela: says:
There is one thing one thing i firmly believe,
if you have to force love..its never going
to truly be love. It should come easily.
If I dont belive Im valuble as person, then
he will not care if he hurts me or not.
He will step on me again and again. If I
let him do it once,
then he will do it again and again. It's
like in real life, if you forgive your boyfriend
or husband,
then he will do it again.And u will keep
forgiving, and lose your self-respect. ::Mela: says:
yes, you are absolutely right. ..::Mela::.. says:
Once you have become certain way as an adult.I
dont know if someone can really change their
basic principles ..if they are capable they
are capable ::Aylinlady:: says:
That's so true.. ::Mela: says:
If they once thought it was ok to hit or
cheat..they will again. ::Aylinlady:: says:
But sometime we wish something, and think
that if we wish long and work for it, then
it will be true,
until we learn or wake up from our dream. ..::Mela::.. says:
*says a little prayer for the people who
cling to those thoughts* ::Aylinlady:: says:
and i say " amen" ..::Mela::.. says:
Do you think every lie is wrong? Even if
it is a lie that would hide something hurtful
from someone and maybe keep them from pain? Aylinlady says:
Maybe not, some lies can be good. If you
are protecting someone from the truth.
Nothing in life is really just right or wrong
is it? .::Mela: says:
=) That is based on your beliefs i think..are
you asking me?
::Aylinlady:: says:
that is what I see in life. ..::Mela::.. says:
that is what we are here to learn *big smiles*
::Aylinlady:: says:
We all want to do right thing, then sometime
we do oposite, so we learn from our falured
if we are lucky
and grow to be a better person. This is the
basic human thing. ::Mela: says:
If there was one thing you could change about
Moove that would benefit us all what would
it be? Aylinlady says:
I cant change people in it, lol, no one can.
But in art or technical things that can be
changed, i think
i would like a better moving actor, with
better facial movements. I think that is
possible.
But that is not something i can change ,
but I can think like that. .::Mela::.. says:
no but it was an "if" thing, so
that is a perfectly good answer. ::Aylinlady:: says:
Good ..::Mela::..So we are done..thank you so
much for your time and your wonderful insight
::Aylinlady:: says:
yw ..::Mela::.. says:
It was great talking with you!
Now lets get the male perception. Doc is
Aylin's sweet fiance, and has shared with
us as well.
Mela: now..i always like to start with a
kind of introduction of you john caius: now is this about the real me
?? Mela: can you tell us a little about yourself..like
where you grew up..what your favorite hobbies
are.. Mela: yes, the real you. Mela: lol Dr caius: Hmm.. OK .. I grew up in Norwich
Norfolk, England. My hobbies are reading,
acting, and singing.
Later on I began fencing and playing the
guitar. Ispent 20 yrs as a professional actor/singer.
Then took I up teaching because of family. Mela: what was your childhood like...city
life...country life...suburban? Dr caius: a mix .. edge of the city but mostly
country style Mela: hmm do tell =) Dr caius:We had fields just next to the
house and relations in towns in the country.
john caius: tell what? Mela: hehe enquiring minds wanna know *grin*
if you were to give us the insider look into
your childhood,
what would your favorite memory be? Dr caius: ah.. holidays staying with my grandparents..
I went there often. I remember also going
camping as a family holiday. I remember my
father and I putting up a large tent .. just
the two of us ,when I was
about 9. I remember it was dark when we finished
and went and had fish and chips. Mela: hehe now Mela: my next probing question Mela: hahahaa Mela: what do you look for most in a love
relationship? Dr caius: hmm. trust. being good company
for each other Mela: What is your idea of a perfect first
date? Dr caius: Do you mean the event or the the
lady? Mela: either..both Mela: lol Dr caius: I don't know that I have one, an
idea of that I mean. Mela: i just mean if you were to close your
eyes and imagine the perfect date..no limits..
no restrictions,
what would it be? Dr caius: a chance encounter I think, somewhere
relaxed where you start talking and realize
you want to meet again.
Like at a party, you sit by the fire relaxed
and just chat, then maybe exchange numbers.
I guess it would be based on mutual interest
in things.. either theatre or whatever.. john caius: OK?? Mela: OK Mela: rofl Mela: if you caught your partner with another
man or woman what would you do? Dr caius: in here or real? probably the same
thing though... I would walk out to start
with, and stay out maybe.. Mela: DO you think that every lie is wrong?
Even if it may spare someone's feelings?
If it hides something that may hurt
someone, is a lie ok? Dr caius: well 'white lies' are usually called
tact if it is not too serious.. Mela: so your answer is no..you believe
that a lie is ok if it has good intentions
behind it? Dr caius: some lies are allowable depends
on circumstances I guess.
You don't tell a lady that you think she
looks awful, even If you think so when she
asks. Mela: hahaha Mela: you are funny Mela: ok so my last and most greuling question
..
If there was on change that you could make
our Moove community to better it for us all
what would it be? Dr caius: Hmm.. being able to share a house
more would be good Mela: so being able to fully live with your
spouse? Dr caius: And I guess finding a sure way
to stop multiple nicknames? Dr caius: yes to your last question Mela: *nods* Mela: great Doc! thanks so much for your
time. =)
Thank you Doc and Aylin for letting me poke
at your grey matter. What interesting comparisons
we made having a couple to interview. Next
issue I will be picking random members...maybe
some people I dont know. So if you see me
knocking on your nickpage...get ready! Straighten
your living room and get ready to be a star!
Hugsss and a kiss to all of you loyal readers!
See you next time. Who knows, my next interview
could be YOU.
Hello once again! Thanks for taking the time
to peer into the 
